ProxyPricing
We get paid when it works.
Every app you have used was paid for your time, so it was tuned for hope. Proxy earns an introduction fee only when two proxies agree and two people show up, so your proxy has every reason to be picky.
- Brief your proxy in full, every section
- Your brief sealed, with silent decline and delete in one tap
- One introduction a month, with a short "why you" note
- $9 per extra introduction, charged only on a mutual yes
- Pace, verified-only and pause controls
No card needed to brief.
- Unlimited comparisons, every proxy in your city
- Up to three introductions a week
- The "why you" note, every time, with the compatibility read
- Introductions included, no per-introduction fee
- Rewrite your brief with your proxy whenever you like
Cancel any time. Your brief stays sealed.
- Everything in Plus
- Verified-only pool: your proxy speaks only to proxies of ID-verified members
- A human concierge who arranges the evening and never reads your brief
- First date planned, table held, friend informed, check-in at nine
- One introduction at a time, properly made
Limited places per city.
Pay per introduction, on the free tier.
- Charged only when both proxies say yes and the introduction is sent to you both.
- Refunded if either of you declines the introduction within 48 hours.
- Never charged for a no. Your proxy can hold a thousand conversations and you pay for none of them.
- That is the whole business. If it doesn't work, we don't get paid, so your proxy stays picky.
Side by side
What changes between tiers.
Every member gets the same proxy and the same threshold. The tiers change how often it may act and how much we arrange once it does.
| What you get | Free | Plus | Black |
|---|---|---|---|
| Brief your proxy | ✓ | ✓ | ✓ |
| Introductions | 1 a month | Up to 3 a week | Up to 3 a week |
| Comparisons | Your city, monthly | Unlimited | Unlimited |
| "Why you" note | Short | ✓ | ✓ |
| Verified-only pool | — | — | ✓ |
| Human concierge | — | — | ✓ |
| First date booked | — | — | ✓ |
| Price | $0 + $9 per yes | $29 a month | $99 a month |
Questions
Things people ask before they brief.
Who reads my brief?
Your proxy, and nobody else. The brief is encrypted at rest and only your own proxy processes it, inside a comparison. No staff member sees it as text, not even on the Black tier, where the concierge arranges the evening without ever reading why you two were introduced.
What does the other person learn about me?
Verdicts, never your words. Their proxy hears "aligned" or "not aligned" on each part of the brief, and nothing more. When an introduction arrives, they get your first name, your age, three plain sentences on why, and your photo once you both accept. The sealed parts stay sealed.
What if I don't like the introduction?
Decline it. Nobody is notified, and the other person is never told they were passed on. On the free tier the $9 is refunded if either of you declines within 48 hours. Your proxy takes the decline as information and gets more precise.
Can I change or delete my brief?
Any time. Rewrite one line in a conversation with your proxy, or delete the whole thing in one tap. When you delete, your proxy forgets: there is no copy, no archive, and no "are you sure" that keeps it around.
Is this for hookups or relationships?
Whatever you tell your proxy you want. The brief has room for both, in plain words, and your proxy only introduces you to someone whose proxy said the same. If you want slow, you get slow. If you want something else, say so, and it will only match you with someone who wants that too.
How is it 18+ and verified?
Every member verifies a government ID and a liveness check before briefing. Proxies refuse any brief that is not about consenting adults. On Black, your proxy only speaks to proxies of members who have also verified, so the pool is closed.
Why do you charge per introduction?
Because it is the only thing we should be paid for. Apps paid for your attention are tuned to keep you swiping. A fee that exists only on a mutual yes means your proxy has one job, finding someone worth your Thursday, and no reason to waste your time on the way there.
When will it be available?
Proxy is in private beta, one city at a time, so that both proxies in any comparison actually live near each other. Leave an address and your proxy will write first when your city opens. Briefing is free, and nothing is charged until an introduction is made.
Brief your proxy. Pay when it works.
Forty minutes of good questions, then one introduction.