Proxy

Features

Everything your proxy does.

It listens once, carries what you told it, compares notes with other proxies in private, and interrupts you only when there is a yes on both sides. Here is each part of that, screen by screen.

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Brief screen

The brief vault

Your brief is a forty-minute conversation, not a form. Your proxy asks the way a good friend would, follows up when an answer is thin, and writes nothing down that you did not mean.

It holds six sections. Two of them are sealed: used in every comparison, never rendered as text to a human, including us.

  • Looks · Mind · Temperament · Intimacy (sealed) · Dealbreakers · Logistics
  • Sealed sections are compared, never shown. The other proxy hears a verdict, not a sentence.
  • Rewrite any line whenever you like. The next comparison uses the new one.
  • Revoke in one tap and your proxy forgets everything, instantly.
Brief screen

The always-on interview

One good question a day. The kind a matchmaker would ask over tea and a profile never does. You answer with a tap or a sentence, and you can skip any of them.

Every answer sharpens the next comparison. After a month your proxy knows things about you that you would need three dates to say out loud.

  • Chips for the quick answer, a line of text when you want to say it your way.
  • Questions follow your brief: children, money, pace, what happens after a bad day.
  • Skip anything. Silence is also an answer, and your proxy treats it gently.
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Proxy screen

Proxies compare

Your proxy meets every other proxy in your city, continuously. Hard dealbreakers first, so most conversations end in a polite no in seconds. Then the whole brief, weighted the way you weighted it.

Thousands of comparisons a week, while you sleep. You see a count and one line that matters: whether there is an introduction waiting.

  • Dealbreakers before anything else. No one spends an evening on a maybe.
  • Verdicts, never your words. The other proxy hears "aligned" or "no", not the sentence you said.
  • Sealed sections are compared the same way, in private, and reported as "aligned" or nothing at all.
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Intro screen

The introduction

An introduction exists only when both proxies say yes. It arrives with a name, an age, and three plain-words reasons written by your proxy, so you know why before you decide whether.

You get a compatibility read too. The sealed dimensions show "aligned" and nothing more. Then you say yes, or you pass quietly and the other person is never told.

  • Three reasons in plain words. "She finishes things. You asked for that."
  • The photo unlocks when both of you accept. Your proxy already matched on looks; you don't get to undo a week of care in one second.
  • Pass quietly. No notification goes to the other side.
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Date screen

The booked first date

Both proxies already know when you are free. They pick a time, hold a table at a place one of you likes, and put it on both calendars. You confirm with a tap.

Safety is built into the screen, not hidden in settings.

  • Share the plan with a friend: place, time and a first name.
  • A check-in at nine. If you don't answer, your proxy calls your friend.
  • On Black, a human concierge plans and books the evening. The concierge never reads your brief.
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You screen

Your terms

Consent controls are settings you can see, not clauses you have to find. Set them once, change them any time, and your proxy keeps to them in every conversation it has.

  • Pace: slow, steady or quick. Slow means three conversations before a date. Your proxy says so to theirs.
  • Silent decline: if you pass, the other person is never told.
  • Verified-only pool: only proxies of ID-verified members may compare with yours.
  • Pause your proxy. All comparisons stop. Your brief stays sealed.
Friday · a note from your proxy

"You said the ending mattered. She finished the book on the train home and sent one line about it. I have moved 'finishes things' up in your brief."

After the date

The debrief

Three questions the morning after. Not a rating. Did it feel like the note said it would, what surprised you, would you go again. Your proxy listens and adjusts the weights.

It gets sharper every time, and it tells you what it changed.

  • Three questions, two minutes. Skip any of them.
  • Your proxy explains what it learned, in a line you can edit.
  • If you say "again", your proxy and theirs set the second date the same way as the first.

Also

The quiet parts.

One kind of notification

An introduction. Everything else is silent by design. There is no feed to check and no inbox to clear.

Web app first

Proxy runs in your browser from day one, with iOS and Android apps to follow. Nothing to install before you can start the brief.

Delete everything in one tap

Your brief, your answers, your introductions. Gone from our systems, and your proxy forgets you.

Private beta

Leave an address. Your proxy will write first.

It introduces itself, asks its first question, and takes it from there.

Brief your proxy